In this post I want to share with you how I managed to change the diagnosis of a family friend. It didn’t really take a long time or many techniques on my part. However, I believe that it could help some of you to see that changing your reality can be very easy and effortless, if you allow it to be that way.
Last month, one of my family friends was found in his house, unable to move or speak. My first reaction was fear and worry. I was overwhelmed. I immediately started telling myself that this is just temporary but honestly, I did not fully believe it. Now, I do have to admit that I have a rule in my reality that I do not have to believe something 100% and that I can get anything I want, even if my thoughts aren’t always positive. Reminding myself of this rule I created, helped me relax, at least for a while.
From there on, I simply wouldn’t accept that this was the end. The reality in which my family friend had these health issues wasn’t the reality in which I wanted to live. Anytime somebody mentioned his current condition and what the doctors diagnosed him with, I would simply tell myself that this may be the state of things right now but I am not staying in this reality. I am choosing the reality in which he makes the full recovery.
The opposite happened and the doctors said that it’s simply impossible for him to recover to any degree. They had to transfer him to another hospital because of the situation with the virus. At this point, I was still hearing a bunch of bad news, opposite to what I wanted. It wasn’t easy to set an intention and let go when the entire world was reflecting back the doubts that I had. But, I had the choice to ignore them.
When I say I ignored them, I don’t mean that I was denying what was happening. I acknowledged my current situation, I just didn’t entertain it and based the judgment of the future on it. If somebody mentioned the opposite of what I wanted, I would nod my head or not react at all. I had the choice to react that way, but if you absolutely must engage in conversations about the current reality, do not create an obstacle out of it. You can always revise it or, even better, simply view it as the part of the old story and know that it is no longer relevant.
The only technique I really used was reminding myself that I am now in the reality in which he is making a full recovery. What the doctors said was of no concern of mine. They could have diagnosed him with anything, I didn’t really care. That diagnosis had no power in my reality.
This lasted about a week. I have to admit, I kind of forgot about the entire thing. People weren’t talking about it anymore after that. It’s like the entire world stopped showing me my doubts and the new reality was unfolding without giving me any hints in the physical reality, except for this “silence”.
Then, out of the blue, my grandparents informed me that our family friend experienced somewhat of a miracle. While he was in the other hospital, he started talking AND walking again! We didn’t even know about it. Well, nobody did, until he himself called his wife to inform her of his great progress.
You see, this is the power we all have inside of us. This is the power that we can tap into. You can, in any moment, choose to align with a different reality. You can choose a different reality as your new dwelling place, as your new dominant state. Anything that comes from temporal states, such as doubts, well they have no power over you because you know that the dominant state and the one that will bear fruit is the one where the things turn out the way you want them to turn out.
From the moment I imagined the ideal solution to the moment it manifested, everything that took place was a bridge of incidents. Keep this in mind whenever you are manifesting. Anything that happens after you get the desire is a bridge of incidents. It is all leading to the fulfillment of your desire, no matter how negative or how discouraging it may seem.
Yes, it does take a little bit of discipline, I would say, or at least it did for me. When the entire world is showing you the opposite of what you want, it can be a challenge not to accept that as the final state of things and forget the reason why this may be showing up. It can be easy to get caught up in these temporary states, as I like to call them now. But you have a choice! You can choose not to accept it.
At the end of the day, he is not separate from me. If I see him as healthy, he has no choice but to be healthy. Since I do believe that he would be happier if he could talk and walk, why not give us both that gift? It costed me nothing but to shift into the reality in which this already exists. It’s as simple as that.
And as I often say, if I can do it, so can you.